Thursday, December 31, 2009

December 31, 2009 - Last days and miniature railroads

We just finished welcoming in the new year in Paris. Unfortunately, it was via the internet and a web cam pointed to at the Eiffel Tower, but, I guess it's the next best thing to being there.
We went to a new restaurant in the Fan for lunch today. It's a place called Garnett's located at 2001 Park. It was written up in the local paper this morning in glowing terms, but we had been told before that by our personal restaurant critic, our son, that it was excellent. With two votes of approval we just had to try it out, and it was well worth it!
The food is mostly sandwiches, and has prices that are very reasonably. They make their own pickles, and Boston brown bread, as well as any pastries around for breakfast. I wanted to buy a loaf of the Boston brown bread, but they cannot sell it by the loaf, as that would require yet another, different license.
We each ordered a sandwich and then shared by her giving me half of hers, and I gave her half of mine. "Her" is that Ginny person I share my life with. By sharing we were able to taste two different things. Also, they have "French" potato salad, which was REALLY good! By the time we finished, we were too full for desert, but that's a good thing.
On the way down there, we crossed over the rail yards on I-95 south. When I looked down on it from the bridge, the tracks and trains looked so small. I thought once again how some things we once wanted never seemed quite high enough on our priority list to obtain over the course of our life. The latent desire evoked by seeing the trains was one I had when I was very younger; I wanted to have a really nice model train layout when I grew up.
Many decades ago, when I was around eleven years old, I used to enjoy building model buildings to be used on a train layout, even though I never had one growing up. I made them from plans I found in one of the model train magazines, or something I created myself. They were made out of balsa wood, and I took pains to make them look realistic, using cellophane for the windows, cutting indentation lines in the sides in order that they looked like real siding, and placing trees and shrubs around them for landscaping.
The town I grew up in from the age of ten through high school was a small town in central Indiana named Marion. One day, while riding who knows where on my bike, I stopped at the old, no longer used, train station. When I looked in the windows, I saw before me a huge model train layout. It was HO gauge, which is relatively small when compared to, say, a Lionel train.
I went around to the door to see if it was open, and it was! I went inside and saw a man down at the other end. He told me I was welcome to look around, so I did. The layout occupied the entire building. It was a miniature world, complete with mountains, rivers, and small towns with cars and miniature people. The trees and shrubs were made from green colored sponges. I was mesmerized as the trains passed by me, the sound of their wheels on the tracks making me wish I could hop on and see where they were headed. I had never seen something as wonderful as this.
The man, a Mr. Knudsen I was to learn, hobbled down to where I was. He towered over me, but then, when I was eleven, everyone towered over me. He wanted to know what I thought of his layout. I told him it was really neat, and did he need, or want any additional buildings, that I built them for fun. He told me to bring them in, and he would take a look at them, no promises.
The next time I came down there, which was probably the next day, I brought a house and a business like building with me to see what he thought. I don't know whether or not he really liked them, but he allowed me to place them on his layout with the caveat that once there, they had to stay forever. I was thrilled my buildings became a permanent part of that layout! I don't remember if I ever built anymore for him, or how many times I went there. I wish I did remember. Today, on occasion, I think wanting a layout, but I have never had the place, the money, and, in reality, the desire, I suppose, or I would have it by now.
After I left Marion, I joined the army, and discovered the real world. The miniature one that I used to think was the best thing there was faded into the distance as I became restless to see the real one.
It was many years before I went back to Marion, not having fond memories of the place when I left. While there, I went in search of the train station to see what the train layout might look like then. It was not there. It was gone. Not only the layout, but the entire station. I felt that Mr. Knudsen must have passed away as he was getting old while I was still very young. If he were alive, I never found out, and had I, I don't know if I would have searched him out or not.
Perhaps things would have been different had I not joined the army and stayed in Marion, gone to college, gotten a job there, and lived there the rest of my life, the way many of the people I grew up with ended up doing. Perhaps, but I'm glad I will never know, because the path I did opt to take has been an incredible ride, and will, I hope, continue for many more years to come!

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

December 30, 2009 - one day left...

Well, here it is, the day before New Year's Eve. We spent the afternoon at Starbucks sipping our drinks and reading. It was mostly cloudy and cold today, so it was a nice day to do that. We might even do it again tomorrow...
Weather forecast is calling for a warmup into the fifties and rain for New Year's Eve and New Year's Day. Then it will turn cold once again. I was hoping for snow, but I don't think we will have anymore this winter. It looks like it may be cold, but I think it will be dry as well. We had a really wet November and December, so I wouldn't be surprised.
On the other hand, my son in Maine is saying they are expecting snow from a storm that is due to start Friday and run through Sunday. If is does happen, he said they would measure the result in feet, not inches. Unfortunately, he found out why the people they bought the house from left the snowblower behind... It doesn't work anymore!
We survived the first snow in good fashion, which is why it wouldn't bother me if we had another storm or two this year. Only, this time, I wish it would snow during the day instead of during the night when I'm asleep. I like watching it fall. It's nice and white, and quiet, usually.
We took one of our granddaughters to the movie yesterday. We had a great time and enjoy getting to spend some time with her. It won't be long before she'll be so busy in her own life we'll be an afterthought. The movie we saw was Alvin and the Chipmunks... It was cute, I guess, and the special effects in those movies are amazing. However, I can't say any chipmunk I've ever seen was the size of a large squirrel, but hey, details, details.
I began working on a new short story yesterday. Don't know what I'll do with it after I write it. Maybe a contest, maybe submit for sale. I have another one I want to write as well, and want to do that before I start going through my book again for another pass before sending to a possible publisher.
Ah! I am SOOOOO glad I don't have to go back to work after the holidays!
I saw a bit on TV where they can now teach people to be happy. Amazing! I find it interesting people need to be taught to be happy. I guess they don't learn that from their social networking or games they play on the computer.
I also saw where they are experimenting with game like devices to teach in the first grade. The children using these don't need to be taught how to use the device as it is just like the mindless video games devices they have their little faces glued to most of the time anyway. The teachers using them say the children's test scores have improved quite a bit. I guess the children feel they can gain some local fame by scoring big that way. It will be interesting to see what the retention is during the following years. If it works, and they actually learn to think as well as learn, I'm all for it. If they become more like robots and are powerless unless they have one of these devices in their hands, then I guess the government will consider them a success. Pop out the battery, and you have a robotic slave who will do anything they are told...
Many years ago I was at a seminar on databases outside of Miami. While having dinner one evening after a session, I began to talk with another man. I made a comment that I seriously felt that the use of calculators in grade school through sophomore year in high school was wrong, as the students needed to learn to use the calculator they had between their ears. Boy! This guy went off on that. I think he must have been a calculator salesman or something.
Well, on that note, I will leave you, whoever you are. I have no way of knowing if anybody is reading this or not, but I'll keep writing anyway. Good practice!

Monday, December 28, 2009

December 28, 2009 - A new week -

We watched "The Sound of Music" last night. Watching it was enjoyable until I began to think that the littlest actress in the movie was probably in her fifties now. And Julie Andrews, who looks much the same today as she did back then, is in her seventies! The movie is 45 years old, at least! I know that because that was the movie my wife and I saw on our first date. It was the third or fourth time my wife had seen it. Don't know if any of the previous times were the result of dates since I didn't ask, and didn't want to know.
What I remember about the date was that my wife-to-be wore a brown dress. During the movie I would look over at her when she wasn't looking and think to myself how incredibly beautiful she was, and how, even after barking at her before I knew her (see one of my previous blogs) she still accepted my asking her to go out. Amazing!

We found a bit of treasure last night as we rummaged through the freezer to see what we had in the way of meat. The treasure? Two fantastic doughnuts with maple frosting! These were doughnuts we purchased back in May as we were returning from our trip to Maine and Vermont.
We were coming back through Pennsylvania and needed to stop and buy some gas. As we pulled of the road - it was not an interstate, but was kinda built like one with entrances and exits - I spotted this sign that said 'maple donuts'. "We need to find this place," I told my wife, so a-hunting did we go. Successfully, I might add.
We found the doughnut place and went in. We decided to have a couple and some coffee, and take a break from driving. I ordered a blueberry creme and a maple. The blueberry creme one felt like it weighed two pounds! It was the most filling I have ever seen in a doughnut, and was absolutely delicious! After eating that, I was full. But, being a person that never quits, unlike the Indianapolis Colt's management, I proceeded to slowly bite, chew, and swallow my maple doughnut. At last, I was finished! "Let's get out to the van so I can pop the belt on my pants and breathe again!" I pleaded.
Anyway, these doughnuts were what I would call REAL doughnuts. They weren't round cakes with frosting, nor greasy loops weighted down with thick batter; they were real doughnuts. If you've never had anything but a Krispy Kreme, or a Dunkin' Donut, you haven't had a real doughnut. These were old fashioned, made by hand and not machine, doughnuts!
They were so good, we decided to purchase a dozen of the maple frosted ones and bring them home with us. My wife, kind hearted soul that she is, wanted to pass them out to our grandchildren. I thought to myself, they won't last that long!
But, as usual, she won. I don't know if she stuck the two we found last night in the freezer without me knowing, or, more likely, I just forgot about them after we put them there. In our refrigerator freezer, things are often placed in there to keep, and then forgotten about, found only when we take everything out to see what we have.
Thus was the case last night. We left the doughnuts on the counter to thaw out, and had it this morning. I say "it" because my wife gave me one, but she didn't eat the other one. Me, the guy trying to loose weight, and I get the doughnut. Life, as it should be lived, I suppose. I'll just have to compensate the rest of the day to make up for it.

Just a second left to toss in my thoughts on the "perfect" season, now past, that the Colts threw away yesterday when they pulled several key players and ended up loosing a game they would have won. As one angry respondent put in a comment on the game - why were the first 2.5 qtrs important, but not the last 1.5? Good question. I guess we can look towards Indy being bounced out of the playoffs early this year. Too bad. The players have done great, but the management, those irritating creatures that wear the suits and run amok trying to act like they have brains, once again ruined something great! Reminded me of the lawyers who now run the military... which is why we loose at war now...

Sunday, December 27, 2009

December 27, 2009 - Typical Sunday... I guess

Took the tree down. Went to the dump and got rid of it. Bought three plastic containers to hold the ornaments. They should be able to be put in the attic... someday soon, I suppose.

Strange sights -
I do believe the people in this country are going crazy...
Sitting in Starbucks. Couple came in. He looked to be in his fifties, she in her forties, I guess. They went and ordered. His drink came first, so he took it and sat down at a table. She received her drink and proceeded to walk past him and sit at the bar running across the front window. He waits a few minutes, gets up, and goes and sits by a table closer to her. She finishes whatever she had, gets up and leaves. He gets up and follows her. Go figure...
Went to Qdoba for dinner tonight. Looked across and their was a "family" sitting in a side booth. Father in a corner, son sitting next to him, daughter in the other corner, and mom's plate waiting for her on the outside of the booth. Mom comes, picks up plate and sits at the table behind father. Daughter gets up and follows mom to other table. Son gets up and follows mom to other table. Dad eats alone.

Many young people (anyone under thirty) tend to ignore the presence of anyone over fifty, as if they were invisible. I guess the young have not come to grips with the fact that every day they move closer to becoming "old", and being ignored... Too bad I probably won't be around to enjoy their trying to figure out how they ended up getting old.

Was surfing through others blogs last night and noticed they were a lot more dressed up than what mine is. I guess I'm going to have to start learning how to dress mine up so it won't look like it was written by an old person who just doesn't understand how blogs are supposed to look and how to achieve a better look. Maybe I'll get my ten year old granddaughter to help...

Saw on MSNBC that the pundits are saying that the jobless rate will continue to be very high, possibly throughout the next decade, which starts in five days. The seven million plus jobs lost, added to the three or four, or more million jobs that went overseas is one reason. They say that companies will not be hiring because they won't need to. They can fill vacancies with part-time people and OVERSEAS WORKERS! Or, just threaten the ones they already have into working harder for no raises. Real patriotic, these companies. The article also indicated that the middle class would continue to be "hollowed out", which I guess means they will fall into the upper lower class, or lower than that as well. Companies will not be willing to give much in the way of raises because they don't have to. Thus, the rich get richer, and the rest of us go to seed...
Of course, the "Health Care" bill that is proposed will add to the countries misery, what with mandating everyone must buy health insurance, and small business has to offer it to any employees. Does anyone really believe that doing that is going to help increase the number of small businesses in this country? If you do, please explain to me why anyone would like to start a small business knowing they have to expend many more dollars just to be in business?
Mind you, I am not against health care reform. It sorely needs it. I cannot understand why pharmaceutical companies can raise the cost of their products 10% or more in an economy that has been running in a negative inflation path for over a year - (but, that's not covered in the bill). And, insurance companies should not lock out people based on a pre-existing condition. In the past, pre-existing conditions may not have been covered for a period of one year, but at least one could get insurance to cover all the other things.
And if people do not think there are already "death panels", look at the insurance companies that dump insurance holders, or refuse to pay for expensive treatment.
And, our esteemed congress did not touch tort reform! Doctors pay outrageous rates for malpractice insurance. Try and find a lawyer that will take on a malpractice lawsuit. Most will not touch them because they are so difficult to prove, and therefore many people who have a case never see anything done about it.
Were you aware that the democrats in congress do not care what the people want? They fully expect that they will loose so many seats in the house and senate next year as a result, but figure they have the means to ram this through, and by God they are going to do just that, the people, and logical reform be damned!
Howard Dean, the one time presidential candidate, and leader of the democratic party, has said they need to kill this mess and start over. And he's a BIG proponent of health care reform!
Congress - arrogant and ignorant, and we foot the bill!

This process is yet another step towards the two class society the government has been working towards for some time, decades, in fact. Don't look now, people, but the US is headed for third world status.

Saturday, December 26, 2009

December 26, 2009 - The day after

Christmas was yesterday. Today, there are only 364 more shopping days until Christmas.
"Dennis The Menace" comic in the paper today - Dennis was sitting on the bed with his dad, and Dennis said, "If God made everything he must live in China."
The snow is almost all gone. There is standing water in the yard, as the ground is so wet there is no place for it to soak into.
Our friend from Denmark left today to return to Manteo, NC. We had a great visit and enjoyed having him here. We are going to try and head down that way sometime in late January, weather permitting.
The Christmas tree comes down tomorrow! Once again, there will be a trail of needles across the floor from where it stood for the last two weeks to the door, the porch, the yard. I'll probably take it to the dump sometime this coming week. They grind them up and turn them into mulch.
My wife and I had an early dinner today. It was too late for lunch, and not time for dinner, so we coined a word, or words, to describe the time we ate: one was 'lupper'; or perhaps 'slunch'; or we could use 'linner'. Take your pick.
Tomorrow is Sunday, a Starbucks day! This is good, as I have not done much reading over the past few weeks. I need to buckle down or I'll never finish reading all my books.

Friday, December 25, 2009

December 25, 2009 - Christmas Day...

Well, it finally arrived! And now, it's almost over with. All the work and anticipation, the money spent, the increase in trash what with wrapping paper, etc., all over again for another year. Hard to believe, but glad it's over.
My wife and I bought ourselves a set of Rubbermaid bowls with attached, sort of, lids. Our oldest son bought us two gift cards, one to Panera Bread, and one to B&N, both of which will go to good ends, well, actually, two ends - the one on top, the head, and the other, the bottom, so to speak.
The sons have come and gone with the grandchildren. The table has been cleared, the few leftovers have been put away, and Ginny now is sitting and relaxing for a while. We will soon leave to go to the movie, tickets purchased yesterday. Today we will see the one with cousin George, 'Up In The Air'. Then sometime between now and whenever, we will see the other 5 we want to see, with several more coming out in the middle of January. It's nice, but irritating, that they come out all at the same time and we have to decide, okay, which ones will be on for the longest time, and then see them in our established sequence.
I have logged two story lines in the back of my head. Hopefully, when I have time to write again, which will be Monday, I will recall what I need to get started, and can go from there.
It's nice knowing I do not have to go back to work in an office Monday. I'm just really getting used to being retired. Hope to continue to enjoy the status for many years to come.
For New Years Eve and Day they are currently forecasting the chance of snow mixed with rain. I'd rather it be snow only. I survived the first storm with no known damage, and with the new gift cards it would be nice to sit in Paneras having one of their muffins and a cup of coffee and watching it snow. Their coffee is really good, at least to me, and since it's my money that means something... to me, anyway.
The snow we received a week ago is only about half melted, so technically, we had a white Christmas. The rain today will take care of much of the rest, as the temps are to rise into the 50s for the next few days.
I was looking at an e-mail I receive on occasion about what's happening in Paris, and hotel deals currently available. They have skating rinks this year scattered around the city. I would love to be able to be there over New Years. Back in 2001, we had rooms booked, plane tickets, and would have been there over New Years had not 9/11 happened. We were not afraid to fly after that, but not knowing what was going to happen within the country we decided to stay here. Had we gone, and anything happened while we were gone preventing our return, it would not have been a pleasant experience.
I can now see us heading over there sometime next fall, perhaps November or December. I'd really like to travel around and go to many of the Christmas Markets they have in Europe, and then return here before Christmas so we don't miss Christmas with the grandchildren. It would also be fun to return to Vienna and enjoy some brats, hard rolls, and mustard in the cold.
Well, not too much going on today other than what I wrote above, so I will sign off for now, and return another day, perhaps tomorrow.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

December 24, 2009 - Christmas Eve

Things I'll never understand -
- Beautiful young women going out with guys who look like they were found under a rock, and the woman pays for everything. I knew of such a young woman way back when who was like that. We decided the only way one could get a date with her was if she saw you in the unemployment line and you hadn't bathed in several days.
- Guys who walk around with their pants almost down to their knees, using one hand to ensure they did not fall all the way and trip them. If the guy ever did fall he probably couldn't figure out how to stand back up.
- People who actually believe politicians mean what they say
- People who still have this fantasy that the US is # 1 in the world
- People who believe the government actually cares what they think
- People who think it's a good deal when their credit card company raises their limit along with their interest rate
- People who watch television because they like the commercials
- Over weight people eating thick, greasy, cheeseburgers, large fries, and drinking large soft drinks who say they're concerned about their health care.
- Auto companies building efficient automobiles but pricing them out of the range of 90% of drivers
- Build-a-Bear running a cartoon for children where Santa cancels Christmas because of the North Pole is melting and the polar bears, all 25,000 of them - up from a low of 5,000 at one point, will have no where to live. There goes the neighborhood!
- People who believe that big, corporate leaders are really not getting any bonus's this year or next
- People who believe that the next BIG THING will be built in the US and create jobs for millions instead of in China
- People who believe that any new thing will be built in the US versus China
- People who think their congressman or senator is honest it's the rest of them who are lying

Things I wonder about -
- If we were sold on global competition keeping prices low, why aren't they?
- If so many qualified people are out of work, why are companies requesting an increase in the H1B1 visas to being more aliens into the country to work?
- If global warming is true, why hasn't the average temperature risen in the last 10 years?
- Why is it freezing here and we have snow on the ground?
- Why do parents allow their young daughters dress in skimpy clothes and then worry about child predators?
- Why do clothing stores for young girls only sell clothes that make them look cheap?
- Why can't children be left alone to be children anymore?
- Why does everything in life have to be competitive? Why can't people do what they love?
- How can people read a book that isn't?

Speaking of books, I'm reading a book titled "August 1914 - The Red Wheel". I spoke of this book in an earlier blog. In the front is a listing of each chapter, and a very brief outline of what is covered in each. I did not pay much attention to this section until I had read almost 200 pages of the book, and realized that it was difficult to follow all the characters, who was speaking about what, where, and when. Then, I thought of the chapter outlines at the beginning of the book. Once I began reading those before starting each chapter, I am now able to follow the story, and the characters. Interesting way to write a novel.
This evening we are planning on attending a Celtic Christmas Service held in a beautiful little church at the corner of Three Chopt and Grove Avenue. We went last year, and I was taken with the Christmas decorations and the structure of the alter. It reminded me of the Catholic Church I grew up in in Marion, Indiana. The church had been around for many,many years. The alter was Gothic Style, all white, and reached towards the heavens. During Christmas time there were red poinsettias all over the alter, and against the white, with the many candles that were lit, it made a beautiful site! I also like the Celtic service because it is quiet and filled with the joys of life.
There is a Christmas display in front of a nice, small house on the street named West End. It has a Santa figure kneeling in front of the baby Jesus. That, to me, defines Christmas!
With that said, enjoy the remaining snow, prepare for the next one, and what ever you do, have a very Merry Christmas!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

December 22, 2009 - T'was three days before Christmas...

And all through the house...
Not a creature is stirring.
Why not, you may wonder?
It's too damn early to stir...
The coffee hasn't even been made yet!
Yesterday went well. We actually finished up yet another granddaughter's gift purchasing. Only one to go with a few extras here and there and we'll be ready for the BIG day, the day when all the work of wrapping culminates with the tearing up of all that work, stuffing it in a trash bag, and realizing there are just 365 shopping days until next Christmas.
We have decided that next year we are going to purchase one of those already decorated trees so all we have to do is put it together and plug it in. I'd like to find one on wheels so once put together we could roll it over and stuff it in a closet somewhere until the next time. Efficiency!
The snow continues to linger in the yards here, so I think we will actually have a white Christmas this year, the first in a long time. The weather is not supposed to be very warm until Christmas Day when the temperature is to rise into the upper 40s, and the day after, into the 50s. Then, back down into the lower 40s.
I really think we will have several more snow storms this winter. It's really needed around here to counteract the global warming coming from all the hot air blowing out of Washington, DC to our north. Those arrogant know-it-alls up there are the biggest bunch of elitist, egotistical, blowhards I have ever had the misfortune of being governed by. They should all be on posters supporting term limits! Nuff said!
Went to the bookstore yesterday and was heartened to see that people were actually in line with stacks of books they were purchasing that they were going to read, or give as gifts. I know the trend, so they say, is for the publishing of actual books to be on it's way out, but I hope not.
I sold a painting a few days ago. First one in some time, but then, I haven't really been trying. We dropped off several paintings in June to a new store to see if any would sell, and one has. Better late than never. I am going to pick up my check today so we can eat the rest of the year. Ginny sold a small one down at ArtWorks, that we know of, and so there will be a little more bread money for January.
This time period reminds me of when we were first married and had our sons. Ginny did not work outside the home, which was great. At least until Jimmy Carter became president, and inflation was running upwards of 11%. Then it became necessary for her to go to work in order for us to survive.
Up until that time, we never had a lot, but we always had enough. When some extra money was found, you could be sure something was going to break, or someone get sick, and that would take care of the "extra" money. But, unlike many, we always had a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs, and food on the table, even if it was only hamburger mixed with whatever else we had. We did eat, and we did survive.
I guess you could say that our financial life peaked several years ago when we were actually able to start taking trips to points far and wide. When we took our fist big trip to Hawaii and Seattle, we had no money. But, we did have credit cards! We charged everything!
We had some breaks, as well. In Hawaii, our son was stationed there in the Marines, and he set us up with a concrete block house on a beach of sorts. It had three bedrooms, a living room, and a kitchen. It was furnished with the necessities, which was all we needed. The best part, it was only $45 a night! He arranged it through the Marines. They have places for families to stay, or did then, while visiting.
Our last night there he arranged for us to stay at the government run hotel on Waikaki Beach. (I think I spelled that right, but not sure). This hotel was beautiful! The entrance was open to the weather, as were most along the beach. It had several pools even though it was right on the beach. The interesting part was that the rate was based on rank. The higher the rank, the more it cost. For enlisted men, it was really low. Our room was $65 for the night.
The next morning, we enjoyed the beach, the water, and watched as a rainbow rose out over the water as a rainstorm passed by. We had a great view of Diamond Head from the beach, as well.
We were in Hawaii for a week, visiting Oahu, Maui, and Kauai. On Oahu we were privileged to tour Pearl Harbor, and take the boat tour all the way around the harbor, something regular tourists were not allowed to do. We were because our son was in the military. There were places where one could see holes made in the walls from the bullets of the strafing Japanese planes. Seeing Pearl Harbor was an emotional experience, especially standing on the memorial over the Arizona and reading all the names of the men, many whose remains were buried below where we stood. It gave me a feeling of incredible pride at being an American, and at the same time, a feeling of sadness because what they fought for is now so freely being given away.
The island of Kauai was very tropical. One doesn't realize when looking at a map that the islands are several hundred miles apart from each other, and have very different climates. The island of Maui was our favorite. The temperatures were very moderate. We ate at a place called Mama's Fish House, recommended by a friend of one of our other sons. We thought this place was going to be a little dive hidden down an alley somewhere on the island. Wrong! It was a beautiful restaurant on the beach. The food was incredible, and the price was reasonable, considering. We were able to sit where we had a view of the beach. Off to the far side of that beach were a large number of windsurfers, bright coloured sails reflecting the setting sun as they skimmed over the waves. Nice entertainment for our dinner!
Honolulu is a BIG city. The people go to work about 4am so they will start about the same time as the people in California where it is three hours later. Huge traffic jams at that hour. Amazing! I thought it was interesting that they had interstate highways, considering there was not really anyplace to go.
While on one of the islands, I can't remember which one, we went to the beach and into the water. They sold fish food on the beach. We thought that was really neat, to be able to walk into the water and go out far enough to see the fish swimming around you, and feel them as they nipped lightly here and there, expecting you to feed them, which we did. They were a beautiful shade of blue and yellow, about a foot long, and seemed to be somewhat transparent. I suppose I could find the name if I wanted to, but never did. Perhaps I will now that I think of it.
After a great week, we rose early, and made our way to the airport to fly to Seattle. On the way onto the airport I saw a couple sitting in the airport. They were both huge, being considerably overweight. Man, I thought, I feel sorry for the person they sit next to! Well, I ended up feeling sorry for myself. The man sat next to me. He could not fit into his seat, and when he tried, the armrest was pushed down onto my lap. I know he couldn't have been comfortable, and there was no way I was going to be with all that weight pressing into my side. This "pleasure" lasted for 5 hours! He and his lady friend, wife, whatever, are prime examples of why airlines need to have rules governing how much space one can take up before they need two seats. Politically correct or not, having some humongous creature sitting on you for 5 hours is not fun.
Fortunately, I survived, a little flatter on one side, but still able to move, even if it looked strange, and we made it to our next stop, Seattle! It was nice that no one asked why I was walking sideways....

Sunday, December 20, 2009

December 20, 2009 - The "incident" at Starbucks

Today dawned bright, clear, and cold! During the hours of darkness, the county once again plowed our street, shoving haphazardly piles of frozen slush in front of my nice clean driveway! So, once again I donned my snow whuppin' uniform and stomped out to do battle with those very same chunks!
Well, it was no contest. I slashed and swung, lifted and dumped, shovel after shovel of that insolent slush, unrepentant at the cries of the victims that wanted nothing more than to last a few more hours before the sun melted them into dirty water.
"NO!" I said. "You're not going to get the chance to refreeze tonight, you nasty crystals!"
Little did I know they would have the last laugh, as after my heroic battle it was all I could do to stand up straight, my back aching from bending over, straightening up, bending over, again, again, and again! Even now, as I sit poised over my laptop writing these words, I know that when I go to stand the room will be filled with the sound of grunts and groans until I find myself upright.
Sunday afternoon, one of the days we retire to Starbucks to sip and read, finally came. We had our friend with us, so the standard order was expanded to three lattes, and three snacks. When the young lady told me how much, I kind of wondered if she had charged us for all of the drinks. She assured me she had, so I let it go, still thinking the bill was a tad too low.
Well, as things turned out, our friend drank his first latte and wanted another. This is an obvious sign of a non-trained latte sipper, one who is able to nurse a single drink for several hours. When I went to the counter to order, the young lady looked at me and said...
"You were right. I didn't charge you for all three drinks. I wasn't going to tell you because I'm supposed to be good with money. At least my money, what with, you know, budgets and things. But, then I thought, well, if I don't say something, the next time you come in you might wonder why your bill was higher than this time, so I decided to tell you."
"No problem," I replied, smug in the knowledge that for one of the few times in my life I was right! I have to keep track of those times, as there are not many of them.
"I should be more careful," she said. "I have enough trouble with my budget, what with paying bills, and what not. When you grow up and mom and dad take care of everything, you're not aware that things cost so much. Why don't parents tell you things are so expensive?"
"Because if they did, you wouldn't leave home," I replied.
"I wonder if people who have a rougher time growing up have a better understanding of how tough it is on your own?"
"They probably do."
"Well, I think schools are letting us down as well. They should teach us that things are not as they seem to be, and that it's not cheap living on your own while going to school."
Fortunately, everything turned out okay. She said she charged me for a Grande instead of the Tall Latte I ordered to make up a bit for the one she missed. That way, she didn't have to charge me for two drinks, but still recouped a bit of the expense.
I found it interesting that she said what she did about wondering why mom and dad don't tell their offspring what life is like, money wise. I thought, well, we tried, and what good did it do us? The only people our sons listened to were people outside of their mom and dad. I guess maybe we should have secretly hired a life tutor to go over all those things as they grew up.
I remember when our oldest son was getting close to wanting his driver's license. I told him he better take Driver's Ed in school. Of course, that took the road less traveled, speeding right through the tunnel between one ear and the other, and out the other side.
Then came summer, and the plea, "Can I take Driver's Ed this summer?"
"It costs $130, and since I told you to take it in school where it was free, I'm not paying for it. You'll just have to wait until next year."
Telling a teenager that they have to wait to get their driver's license is just not what they want to hear, and will go to incredible lengths to prevent it.
"What if I get a job and pay for it myself?"
"That's up to you," I replied.
Next thing I know, he comes home and announces he has secured a position at Burger King. Guess who had to take him to work and pick him up at 3am when he got off? Right. Yours truly!
Well, he works long enough to save up $130, and then quits. Boy, he learned a lot with that attempt to teach him the value of money, and working for what you want, I thought.
Moral of the story is: No matter what you try to teach your children, you will end up paying in some way, no matter what it is. For him? Well, he took the driving class, got his license, and we then faced the next hurdle... what was he going to drive? Stay tuned. If I stop grinding my teeth as I think about it, I'll write more some other day... The good part is, he actually trains police officers how to drive now! Wonder if their parents pay for that course...

Saturday, December 19, 2009

December 19, 2009 - Digging out... almost

We ended up with around 13 inches of snow, I'd say, but then there's a chance for a few more inches tonight. When they plowed the road, they plowed the middle and piled it up in front of driveways far enough out that in order to be able to get out of ones drive, they would have to shovel out to where it was clear.
Shoveling went slow. The bottom of the cover was wet, and that makes it difficult to lift, so, I took my time, spending time to dig one area three times, getting closer to the ground each time. I took many breaks along the way. I shoveled off the van as well as around them. (There are two here right now because we have a house guest, our friend from Denmark, who will be here through Christmas.
We had thoughts about going to the bookstore, but by the time we finished shoveling, there wasn't much time left, so we put that off until tomorrow. I'll have to clean the vans a tad again tomorrow, as I saw some more snow headed our way on the radar. But, it won't be as bad as today, that is for sure.
Right now they are forecasting another storm for Christmas Eve, and Christmas Day, but it is supposed to be rain. We'll see. If it is, it won't break my heart. If it isn't, and turns out to be frozen precipitation, it might break my heart.
I really feel that this is but the first storm of the winter, and that there will be more for us to deal with over the next few months. So much for global warming. I am tending to believe what that Russian scientist said a few months ago... we should be stocking up on thick winter wear. I saw someplace where they were saying that the last ice age occurred came about in a manner of months, not hundreds of years. Could it happen again? I guess we'll see.

Friday, December 18, 2009

December 18, 2009 - Part II

Home from shopping! Amazing! We finished the shopping for one granddaughter, and did some for the other two. As for the grandson, it's difficult to decide what to get a young man - 2.5 years old - that already has about every toy there is for boys. Maybe we'll buy him his own baseball team...
We are going to the bookstore later today so will check out books for him and some for one other granddaughter. Then, once they clear the parking lots, hopefully by Monday, we'll try to finish up before Christmas. Not buying much this year on request of the parents, which is fine with me. The less, the better! Bah Humbug! Off with ye, ye little wallet drainers! (Joking... I think...).
It is getting darker here which means the cloud cover is thickening up, which means the snow will begin any minute. Can't wait! NOT!
I am on a diet. Why? I'm a tad bit overweight, and I'm hoping that by losing 20 pounds I will be able to lower my blood pressure enough to stop taking the BP medicine. The less I fork out to pharmaceutical companies the better I like it. If I can stop taking the meds, I'll be med free! Plus, I have pants upstairs, hardly ever worn, that I will be able to start wearing once again. If I succeed, I will have more energy, and thus be able to do more for less.
Had dinner with some friends last night. They are headed to Italy. He, on the second of January to take a month long Italian immersion class to learn to speak the language better, his wife to follow in mid-February. He already speaks 6 different languages. Last year he went to Russia for a month long class on Russian. This was all paid for by the company he retired from because they "redeployed" him at the same time as he was going to retire. Part of the redeployment package was a nice sum for learning a new skill. He likes to travel, and so opted to go to two different countries and learn their languages.
He is originally from the Czech Republic, having escaped there back in 1962 at the age of 22. He lived for 25 years in Switzerland before coming to the states with his American wife, and settling in Richmond.
He went back to Europe a few years ago and visited a friend of his in Berlin. I asked him if he went into what used to be East Germany while there. His reply was that not only did he go, but he found the hotel he had stayed at in the early 60s while looking for a way to escape.
When he finally did, he left his family, everything he ever knew, behind. He did not return to Czech until long after the wall was torn down as he was afraid that if they found out who he was he would be arrested for deserting the army back then.
So, readers, whoever you be, be thankful for what we have, and be vigilant. So many men and women have given, and are giving, their lives so we might still be free. Don't make their lives a wasted contribution, here or abroad.


December 18, 2009 - Shopping Day!

Well, the snow, so they say, is on it's way here, due to arrive this afternoon, and stay through sometime Sunday. All told, we are supposed to receive around a foot, but we'll see. They keep raising the possible total for here. They started at 3"-7", then went to 9"-12", and the latest is 8"-13". I think the total will depend on where the storm goes. They are predicting up to 16" just a tad west of where we live, so if the storm wobbles a bit, we could end up with more. We'll see.
To prepare, I will dust off the snow shovel, park our vehicles in the driveway to keep them from being plowed under, and hope the snow is light an fluffy so I can shovel it. At my age it is not wise for one to shovel snow, so I will just attempt to push it out of the way without lifting it.
Since we have not done any Christmas shopping as yet, we will be leaving shortly in order to hopefully remedy much of that before the snow arrives. We have plenty of supplies, so we should be fine food wise, by will stop by Costco and pick up more apples. We believe as the saying goes, an apple a day makes one healthy, wealthy, and tired of chewing, or something like that. But, they have managed to help us be healthy for some time, and we hope the record continues for another 20 - 30 years, even if that is a lot of chewing.
At one time I used to really get excited about snow. At the beginning of fall this year I was getting excited about the possibility of some snow this year. However, the more I thought about it, the less excited I was, remembering all the shoveling, the dirt on the vehicles, the brown snow as it melted... so much for being excited. Oh, well...
Well, tis getting to be time I woke the wife and she made ready to go. I will report on our success later, once we are stuck in the house for a few hours.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

December 17, 2009 - Swearing in and other things

Yesterday our friend from Denmark was sworn in as a citizen of the US. It was a bittersweet ceremony. He has MS and has reached the point where he must use a scooter in order to get around, and crutches when the scooter is not feasible. With the crutches, though, he tires quickly if having to go very far. However, his condition does not keep him from doing a lot of things, and he manages to still live alone with occasional assistance. I'm glad he was able to qualify for citizenship, as now he will be able to come and go with the knowledge he can stay as long as he wants.
I went to my writer's group meeting last night and was disappointed that only three other people besides myself, were in attendance. I have joined the Virginia Writers in order to network, that activity that puts one in contact with others with the same interests. I will also join the James River Writers after the first of the year. Adding these two organizations to my bio for when I contact agents and publishers will not hurt. And, who knows, I may actually find a publisher for my book(s) thru the contacts I meet.
On the art front, my wife sold a small painting. It was the first one since July at her gallery. We will be looking to find more places where she can display her work after the first of next year. Buyers are out there, they just don't seem to be coming to ArtWorks anymore. Why, we can't say, as we don't know. The Friday openings where they used to have good crowds have not been sustained, with the last several openings having very few people showing up. It hasn't been the weather, that much we do know. As for her paintings, last year she sold a lot of paintings, and had the quality not been there, she wouldn't have sold those. It's discouraging for her, and understandably so. I keep telling her it isn't her paintings, which it isn't, it's the lack of traffic there. To show that there are still buyers out there, we went into a different gallery in a different part of town, and the main show artist had sold over $50,000 worth in less than a month, and another one, who did basically the same, strange, subject matter over and over, using the same colours, has sold over $20,000. So we know the $ out there. We'll keep plugging away and see what happens. We're in for the long haul.
It's supposed to snow here tomorrow. I'll believe it when I see it. It's almost cold enough during the day, and is at night. I did see where it is snowing in Paris right now. What a beautiful sight that must be. It's about 9pm there right now, a great night to walk to the Eiffel and watch the different lights while enjoying the snow.
Thinking of that reminds me of one night when we were in Vienna. It was late October, and we had read that the temperatures at that time of year were normally in the fifties. Well, not the year we were there. We took clothes for the fifties and ended up having to buy hats and gloves to keep warm.
When we went out for dinner this particular night, we only wanted something light. So, the person working at the hotel told us there was a little place around the corner where we should be able to have some soup, which was about all we wanted. So, in we went. The waiter was very nice, and told us they had one table that was reserved, but we might have time to eat before the other party showed up. I assured him that we would eat quickly.
The place was small, and old. The tables were a mix of anything and everything, along with an assortment of chairs. Seeing all the reserved signs on the tables led me to believe they must have pretty good food there. So, I made reservations for Saturday night, our last night in Vienna, on the off chance they did.
However, for tonight, we dined on a bowl of broth with some pieces of sausage in it, some hard crusted bread, and a nice glass of Riesling. Perfect! We enjoyed it without eating fast, and still finished ahead of the next occupiers of the table.
When we left the restaurant it was starting to snow. It was dark out, and the lights were on. We decided to walk over to Stephansplatz, and enjoy the beautiful scenery and the falling snow. After walking around for a while window shopping in the cold, we realized we were getting hungry. We found a vendor stand selling brats, and so ordered 2 brats with mustard and a hard crust roll. We found a place by the fountain and sat there eating those hot brats with a dab of mustard, and a bite of the roll. Absolutely heavenly! I cannot remember a time when everything came together like that; the snow; the cold; the beauty of our surroundings; the fragrance of warm food in the cold air, the taste of the warm brat mixed with the mustard and roll... makes my mouth water now just thinking about it!
The next morning when we awoke, there was about 4 inches of snow on the ground. The roads, however were clear, as were the sidewalks. The sun was out, and melted most of the snow that day, but not before we were able to take some pictures.
As for Saturday night? We went and had a fantastic dinner of schnitzel and veggies, desert, and of course, a bottle of excellent Riesling.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

December 15, 2009 - Why did I retire?

If I were like many other people, I never would have retired. For one thing, if I had a financial advisor, which I do not, and I had mentioned I wanted to retire, they would have fallen out of their seat laughing, and then asked, "Are you serious?" In other words, from a financial standpoint, I would have to work until I was over 100 years old in order to achieve "financial independence" as they say, or enough money to live the way I have been.
Well, the way I had been living may have been nice from a financial standpoint, but the part about having to get up every morning and drive to a job that was nice to have, but that I seldom enjoyed, was a high price for me to pay offsetting any purely financial gain I made.
So, I decided I had enough of the business world, and told myself that even in our financial position, which was okay for me anyway, I was not about to work a minute longer than I absolutely had to, which was when I hit 65 and 10 months. That was the point where I began to collect my SS. The amount would be enough to cover the necessities of living, but little else. We did have some money saved, and if we stayed close to home and lived like pets in a self imposed cage, it probably would last quiet some time.
The day arrived on June 30th. I actually did not leave the company I worked for until July 1st in order to stretch my health care until the end of July, and yet only pay half as much for the full month.
On my last day, as I walked out the door, it never sunk in that I wouldn't be back. Oh, there was a time a few months ago when I gave some serious thought to returning to work in order to get health coverage, but, fortunately, that did not work out. When I knew I was going to have an interview I went to Border's to find a book I could skim through and review some buzz words for the interview.
When I arrived at the IT section of the store, I stood frozen to the floor far enough away that I could not reach the shelf. My mind shut down tight and whispered to me... "There's no way I will ever allow you to fill me up with all that ever again!" I knew then I could not do it. I just did not have the heart, stomach, or desire, to reenter that which I couldn't wait to leave.
I must say, though, that the first 15 months of my retirement literally flew by. It was like, where did I ever find the time to work before? And yet, I never really got used to being retired, or realizing I was retired until I recently went back to the place I retired from to have lunch with a few acquaintances. As I was leaving, I realized how much I enjoyed not working, there, or anywhere. It was only after that that I really started to wake up in the morning knowing I was where I wanted to be right then... still in a nice warm bed next to my wife! And the day was all mine... usually.
The perceived recklessness of my decision has never been an issue with me. Shortly after I retired we left for Europe, spending eight weeks, traveling from Amsterdam, through France, into Spain, and taking a day trip to Tangiers, Morocco. This trip took a big chunk of the money we had saved up, but I didn't care. We had talked of doing this for years, and we did it while we could still move about. I have no regrets.
To prove that, we took a month this year and drove out west. I wanted to see some of the country, the Grand Canyon, and other places as well. So, we planned it out, and we did it!
With the economy as it is, things may become a little tight financially for us over the next few years. But the uncertainty of life has instilled in me that if one wants to do something, one should do it instead of waiting until "the right time", whatever that is. Because of this philosophy, we have travelled to many countries, seen many beautiful sights, paintings, and other things, eaten incredible food, and have many incredible memories.
In the long run, spending freely may come back to haunt me, but the one thing I will have that nothing, or no one, will ever be able to take away from me, are the memories my wife and I have given each other during our travels through life, and that is worth more than anything I have. Not only that, but we are now planning our next trip, or trips! How we will do it, well, we'll just have to wait and see, but we will do it.

Monday, December 14, 2009

December 14, 2009 - Birthday today and what went on yesterday

Today is my beautiful wife's birthday! "Happy Birthday, sweetheart!" (That's me, yelling to tell her that since it's difficult to hear in the utility room where she's doing the washing) "Is breakfast ready yet?" I ask... politely.

Yesterday evening, we had a very special event in our family. Our oldest son, Shawn, was baptized! This is not a small event. He is 43 years old, and it was something he chose to do, and was something we heartily supported him doing as it was something he really wanted.

We received a Sunday paper, probably by mistake since we don't subscribe, or as one person told us, it probably floated down to our driveway from someone else's what with all the rain we had. For the second time in less than a week we had a great deal of standing water in our yard. I fear that all the grass seed I put down in a few weeks ago has probably drowned by now. I guess I'll see come spring. It probably ended up in my driveway which is the only place where it seems to grow very well.
Back to the paper! I'm glad that there still are newspapers around considering that many are having a problem with loosing subscribers, advertisers, etc.. And I know that much of their income is derived from advertisers. In spite of that, I still wonder why do we end up with fourteen pounds of ads, and two ounces of news? I did use parts of the newspaper in spring to put around the roses and shrubs to prevent weeds from growing in there. That didn't work very well, either. They grew in the mulch I put over the newspaper. We do receive the daily paper, Monday through Sunday. That's so my wife can do the crossword puzzles so she can stay mentally sharp. I think it's obvious that I don't do them...

Yesterday it was cold with heavy rain most of the day. Until last evening when, believe it or not, it stopped, and within less than 20 minutes it was clear out! Literally! not a cloud in the sky! Amazing!

Yesterday was Sunday, and what is Sunday but one of the days when we grab our stack of current reading material and head to Starbucks! I told my wife that as nasty as it was out, they should reward us in some way for being such good customers. Once there, there were a few people inside, but not many. That changed during the course of the afternoon, but even so, the noise level did not deter us from our reading. And, Starbucks had those great cookies with the frosting on them! I became addicted to those last year, and then, suddenly, they stopped carrying them. I had to wait an entire year before they returned. And, I don't know if this is just a short time presence, or they will be there for a while. I guess we'll see.

Last night while I was taking my break from sleeping, I watched an ad about a DVD put together on a show called 'The Midnight Special", music from the seventies! Seeing all those bands and musicians from back them was interesting. I especially thought Rod Stewart in this suspenders, bright green shirt, and yellow, silky pants (at least that's what I remember - it was 2:30 am) and long dark hair, was something else. And then, on top of that, CBS Sunday morning had an interview with Paul McCartney (?). He's my age! But, he can still sing. He talked about the Beatles, and I thought back to where I had first heard them and what I was doing...
I was in Copenhagen, Denmark. It was 1962. I was in a place named "The Dixie Bar", dancing with a young Danish lady people referred to as "Monkey". We were dancing to, what else, one of the first Beatles songs I had ever heard. This was a good two years before they landed in America! When I heard them here I thought they were old hat, not realizing this was their first visit in the states, and that their music was not played here very often prior to that.
If you're like me and wonder why they referred to the young lady as "Monkey", well, unfortunately I learned that by asking others. The reply was, "Didn't you see the needle marks in her arms? She's a heroin junky!" I hadn't. A few days after that, she was arrested for prostitution because she did not have a card indicating she had a regular job. Back then, the Danish police felt that if a young lady did not have a job, she must be hooking to make a living, and it was prohibited. Sad to think of all the people who have given away their lives because of drugs or alcohol.

I will take my leave on that sad note, remembering that today is really a very happy day, for my wife and me. My wife, because it's her birthday, and me because I am privileged to be able to spend it with her. I intend on taking the redistributed wealth stimulus money I received from the "gubmint" and take my wife out for dinner... right... Hope she likes Big Macs...



Sunday, December 13, 2009

December 13, 2009 Bits and pieces - some little miracles.

I woke up this morning, thankfully, and realized that I had slept through the entire night without waking up for one reason or another!

We won some money in the lottery yesterday. Afterward, we were out shopping, or my wife was, I was sitting on a bench enjoying the nice weather, and I started watching these young boys, cub scouts, ringing the bell near a Salvation Army collection kettle. They were really enthusiastic about it, showing each other the different ways they could ring the bells. It was fun watching them. When my wife returned, and we headed to another store, I told her I was so impressed with the young men's abilities I was going to place all our winnings in the kettle. She thought that was a good idea. So, as we walked towards the boys, I removed my wallet, and thoroughly enjoyed removing our winnings, rolling them up, and pushing the two dollars into the kettle! Hey! No comments! It was not much, but it was something.

We bought a Christmas tree yesterday. It's still on the porch. I guess at some point, preferably before Christmas, I'll have to put it up. I get to set it into the stand, and then drag it in through the door while it retaliates by dropping needles all over the place. After that, I get to put the electric lights on it and hope they all work. Then, my wife and anyone who has the urge, hangs all the coloured balls. Once that is completed, we all live happily ever after - until the day after Christmas when we reverse the process and the tree drops even more needles on the floor as I drag it out of the house.

Many times when I am doing something that requires little or no thinking, which is often, I remember things from the past. This morning, I was thinking of things that happened while we were in the company of our grandchildren.
The most recent was when our handsome grandson, Peyton Michael, was sitting on my lap. He stood up and looked at me and asked, "Grandpa, where's your hair?" To which I replied, "Unfortunately, it's all over the place."
One of our granddaughters, Devin Rose, has become a ten year old grammar teacher. We were in a restaurant recently waiting for a table. After several people ahead of us were seated, she looked at me and asked -
"When are we going to be seated?"
"Very shortly," I replied. "There's still a few people ahead of us."
She looked at me and said, "Grandpa, you use bad grammar."
"What do you mean?" I asked, faking indignation.
"You should have said 'There are several people ahead of us'".
To which I replied, "Well, what if there were only one?"
"Then you should have said 'There is still a person ahead of us'."
I knew then this was the kid I wanted to edit my writing!
At least I wasn't the only one she corrects. She and her father were having a discussion, and Devin said something, to which her father, Patrick, said "Are you implying....". Devin replied, "Don't you mean 'infer'?"
Then there was the time several years back, when we took our granddaughters swimming. I was, well, I weighed a tad bit more than I do now, oh all right!, I weighed much more than I do now, but anyway, they were in the water yelling for me to get in. So, I stripped off my shirt and jumped in. When I came up from under water, Shannon, who was around eight at the time took one look at me and said, "Grandpa! That's gross! Put your shirt back on!" It's so nice to loved...
And then there's Hannah. She is twelve now, going on 35, but in a very nice, interesting way. We were spending some time with her after we had dropped off Devin at her dance class. I asked Hannah what she wanted to do. She said she didn't know, and asked what we wanted to do. I told her, "I want to go to Paris." She piped right up from the back seat with, "That works!"
The beauty of grandchildren is that most of us do not have to spend the time making sure they are fed, clothed, and have a roof over their heads. Grandparents then have the pleasure, and luxury, of really listening to them, and watching them. Their expressions say so much. For me, grandchildren are the reward for raising our children.
Another great thing about them is the fact that they are honest about what they say to you. I have yet to encounter a comment from one of them that was spoken in anger, or maliciously, at least to me. It's almost too bad they have to grow up, become adults and see how shallow and false many adults are.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

December 12, 2009 - The best laid plans...

One of the things I used to think about when I worked was having the time to spend doing what I wanted to do, which at the time was write and return to watercolor painting. I imagined myself spending the morning writing, and the afternoons sitting at my table turning out fantastic watercolor paintings with the hope of turning a bit of a profit when people saw how great they were.
Once retired, reality set it. I have not disciplined myself to write in the mornings, and paint in the afternoon. Excuses range from "I'm not ready yet" to "I'll start that next week," even though I realize that I may not have next week. Since I have retired, I have completed several drawings, and a single painting. The painting is okay, and it was done from a photo I took in Bayeux, France when we were there last year, but it is overly detailed, and I can't say I really like it enough to have it framed for selling.
Such is reality. We think one thing when we cannot do what we think about, but when given the time, how many of us actually do what we thought about? I guess this is where the word "passion" plays into our lives. I used to wonder why my sons, all gifted with really great ability in art, never did anything with it.
Our one son is now a chef. He is great at drawing cartoons. I have mentioned several times that there is no cartoon that I know of that involves a chef working in a restaurant, so why doesn't he apply his artistic ability into creating one? Now that I have the time to do what I want, but haven't, I've come to understand that in order to do things, and stick with it, one has to have a passion for it. I guess he just isn't as passionate about a comic strip about chefs as I am about having him do one. I need only to look at myself to see where his lack of drawing passion comes from.
Another son used to draw a lot when he was younger, but except for a few designs he has drawn, he has spent his time devoted to being a great policeman. He now has reached the point where he is instructing others to be good policemen.
Our third, and last son, received his degree in art from VCU. We have one of his amazing brush and ink paintings hanging in our living room. He did no preliminary drawing with this work, simply used a brush, and ink. Had I done anything like that there would be imprints of whiteout everywhere from the mistakes I made. But, even with his ability, and love of art, he prefers to run his comic store, immersing himself into the art and business of comics. He is hoping to be able to teach at VCU one day, if not as a professor, than as a person they refer to as an adjunct something-or-other.
I was never really one who tried to pressure any of our sons to do anything other than what they wanted to do. Their lives are not mine to live. The good part of all this is that they are doing what they want, and seem to be passionate about what they are doing. Passion is definitely something I did not have in my career, such as it was, in the world of IT. There were many days when I went to work where I had this desire to lift my terminal or laptop over my head and throw the thing through the window. But, having responsibilities, I did not do it. Oh, there were times I actually did enjoy it, but those were few and far between. Not only that, but after being in the field for several decades it was just doing the same thing over and over and over. The objective never really changed. Languages changed, terminology changed, but the fact remained - you have input, you process it to get a result, and the result is output. Simple. And boring. Except for learning, writing different stories, and creating art, all jobs are repetitive. I respect those who do have a passion about something and wish I had been able to have spent the greater part of my life being passionate about something as well.
Well, perhaps I will now start looking into actually doing what I keep saying I enjoy. I really do enjoy drawing and painting. I enjoy writing, and am writing, which is good. I need to reassess my wants, and establish some sort of schedule that will not allow me to make excuses for not doing things. I have a wealth of photos of people I want to draw. I only need to get off my ass, at least long enough to set it down at my table, and get busy! Unfortunately, it will have to be next week. Today is shopping day - grocery, Christmas, etc., etc., and later, over to a friends house for the evening...

Friday, December 11, 2009

December 11, 2009 - Best Laid Plans

When I thought about retirement I imagined all these things I was going to do. First and foremost was getting my first book published. This plan was what I would have to term as a plan put into effect with extremely bad timing. The economic downturn was in full swing when I retired, but I chose to retire anyway, and would again, regardless.
Once I retired, I polished up the book, wrote a summary, several in fact, wrote an author's bio, and a query letter. I purchased a book on agents, and started at the beginning of the category the book fell into, initially suspense, ending up in mainstream.
The first e-mail query I sent out was responded to within a half hour. I was amazed, and shocked, as I was not fully prepared for a response that quick. I replied to the agent and sent them what they requested, which included a summery that had not been completed. We corresponded back and forth several times, with the agent sending me some extremely helpful information. The manuscript at that time was over 105,000 words.
Along with helpful comments about shortening the length and finishing the summary, she said that she really liked the premise of the book, but that at the current time, what with the economy being what it was, it was very difficult for a first time author to break into print.
So it went. I sent out around 50 queries, some e-mail, some snail mail. I received many standard replies, but I also received some definite encouragement. The encouragement came from agents that had some interest in the story, but again indicated that it was really difficult for an unknown to break into print. Several suggested I go right to the publishers, as they were not taking on new clients unless you knew someone in the business that would assist. I didn't. And, I don't.
Finally, after nine months of "close, but no cigar", I decided to retrench. I reverted to writing short stories and sending them off to contests. The first one I sent to Writer's Digest Short Story contest finished in the top 100. When I received the certificate I found that the word 'artist', a word in the title of the story, was misspelled on the certificate. Coming from a writer's magazine it makes one wonder...
I then wrote three short short stories, stories under 1500 words, and sent them off to the Writer's Digest Short Short contest. If anything comes of those I will not know until sometime in late January of 2010.
In the meantime, I intend to continue to write short stories, and submit them for publication. I have had some success in this in the past, and hope there will be more in the future.
Also, on the book front, I will continue to research my second book, a sequel to the first, and begin writing that sometime in the second quarter of 2010. As for the first book - the title is "The Girl Who Lived In Colours" - I intend on submitting directly to publishers starting in the second quarter of 2010 as well. I have no intention on quitting the attempt to have this published. The length has been reduced to around 90,000 words, and several things changed to tighten up the story. I will make one more pass through it starting after the holidays while I am researching publishers.
So the dream of sitting in Barnes and Nobles, or Borders, or the Northshire Bookstore in Manchester, Vermont, anywhere for that matter, is something I was not able to fulfill this year, but I do have that to look forward to, perhaps in 2010. We will see.
In the meantime - keep writing! Keep reading!
And drawing - more on that plan later...

Thursday, December 10, 2009

December 10, 2009 - Books and bookstores

I am a book collector. Not in the sense that I collect rare volumes. I just see books at the bookstore I'd like to read some day, and the next thing I know I am trying to find someplace to stack it. I have many, many books yet to read, and so have adopted the stance that I will not buy any more until I read all the ones I already have. Since I have so much time on my hands what with being retired, I felt that I have plenty of time to read. Well, that's true in a sense, but then most of us really don't know how much time we have... left, that is.
Having been in Spain just a year ago, I found myself interested in reading novels with the setting in Spain. I have read 'Winter in Madrid', written by C. J. Sansom, a German author. The book sold over 2 million copies in Europe, but few people over here ever heard of it.
Another of the books I have had for a while is titled 'The Spanish Bow', written by Andromeda Romano-Lax. The name of the author was enough to entice me to purchase this book, along with the setting of the story, which is Spain. The story involves a man's love of a bow for the cello that was sent to him as a young boy by his father. It was sent from Cuba prior to his father being killed during the Spanish-American war. The stories time period covers Spain before, during, and after the Spanish Civil War fought in the late thirties before the advent of World War II.
Anyway, when reading these two books I saw many references to Don Quixote, written by Miguel de Cervantes. While in Madrid, we saw that all the shops that tourists frequent sell statues, posters, what have you, of the 'Don'. This led me to develop an interest in perhaps reading the book, which I had never done. So, instead of going to the library and borrowing a copy of it, I went to Barnes and Noble and purchased a paperback copy. It's a good thing I did, as the book is over 800 pages long, and at the rate I'm reading, will take about three months. I find it interesting that the story is so well written, and is very funny in parts while at the same time it makes one feel sad because of Don Quixote's probable dementia. One loses the fact that the story first appeared in 1615.
Taking so long to read this book makes it seem like I don't really read that much, given the time I have. However, at the same time I am reading Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn's 'August 1914 - The Red Wheel', which is also over 800 pages. This one, though, is being read at a faster pace, and should be completed in less than 2 months.
Along with the books I am reading, I am also reading writer's magazines, since I write as well as read.
I have several bookstores that I consider my favorites. By my ranking, they are:
Northshire Bookstore in Manchester, Vermont - I could spend days in there!,
Manteo Booksellers in Manteo, North Carolina; Manteo is on Roanoke Island, the sound side of the
Outer Banks,
Shakespeare and Company, on the Left Bank in Paris, France, and
The Red Wheelbarrow, on the Right Bank in Paris, France.
The last two, I could spend the rest of my life in. Were it not for young grandchildren, we would sell our house and be gone!
However, since we cannot be in Paris, we opt for spending several afternoons a week, usually Wednesday and Sunday, sitting in Starbucks, sipping on lattes or frappes, reading. This is where I do the bulk of my reading. My wife is a voracious reader, reading many more books than I do. She has the ability to read well into the night long after I have fallen asleep after reading perhaps 5 to 10 pages.
As long as I am breathing and able, I will never stop enjoying the feel of a book in my hands. I think it is sad to see so many people getting into their electronic books. There is something magical about opening the cover of a real book to the first page, and then turning page after page to discover what happens, seeing the number of pages read overcome and pass the halfway point of a book until, at last, one is at the end. It can bring about a feeling of satisfaction, even sadness if the book was so good you didn't want it to end.
On the other hand, at least the people with the electronic books are reading. But, I wonder, do they feel anything while they read, or do they just see words on a screen they really do not relate to?

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

December 9, 2009 - Opening Day

I'm known as a senior citizen. I have pondered over this for a few years trying to determine what is it that denotes a "senior citizen". Is it age, the fact that I am older than 60? Is it the fact that I'm retired? Is it the way I look, or act, or the things I believe in? To me, it is none of those, and it is all of those. I am classified as a senior citizen because someone, probably someone under the age of 40, decided that everyone must be part of a group, such as a "baby boomer" or "generation this", or "generation that", and this is the one I have been placed into.
Regardless of what "group" I am in, the definition of my classification as a senior citizen could remove the part on age. I say that because I have found that the majority of "young" people - those under 40 - stopped paying attention to anything I said long before I reached the age of 60. This, of course, does not refer to my children who stopped listening long before that.
To me, my age simply records the number of seasons, or moons, that I have walked the earth - or driven, flown, ran, or crawled over it.
They could also remove the part about being retired. Had I been able, I would have retired
fifty years ago, at the ripe old age of 17. I wonder if I would have been referred to as a senior
citizen if I had? Work, for me, was exactly that, work. Oh, there were times when I enjoyed it,
but those seconds and minutes were few and far between. I worked in the field of information
technology. It was an interesting field, and I owe a lot to having worked in it. However, my
problem was not the field I worked in, it was that I had to work at all. My perfect career would
not have been work to me. My perfect career would have been that of a professional appreciator.
It would have been my job to hire out to someone who was a workaholic and made a lot of
money. In their place I would go about appreciating the things they did not want to take the
time to appreciate, such as traveling to different parts of the world, trying different foods, going
to Broadway shows or musicals. It could have even been taking the spouse, or family, out for a
night on the town. Any and all of these things would of course be expensed, and added to my
hourly rate for such events. The amount charged would have been directly related to what it was,
and who all would be involved. Unfortunately, I thought about this after I worked for over 35
years, and by then I was old enough to know I didn't want to become involved in appreciating
anything with someone else's family.
Perhaps I am classed as a senior citizen because of the way I act. I have found, as most if not
all have found, that as senior citizens, each year that passes, it takes a little longer to rise from
ones seat, and several seconds, etc., to move after that. However, once upright and movement
has begun, it is pretty much back to normal speed.
As for looks, well, there's not a whole lot I can do about that. My hairline has receded back
to where I can no longer see it, except on the sides. There are still a few strands of hair that
show up as having colour to them, but I think most of that is in my eyes, and not in actuality. My
two year old grandson asked me recently where my hair was, and all I could think of was that it
was all over the places I've been.
As for the things I believe in as a senior, I will go into those over time as I add to my blog.
I am also going to write about anything that pops into my head, about the past, the way I have
lived my life, such as it is, the places I've visited over the years, and the things I did that
many others would not dare to do. I have lived on a day to day basis most of my life, and did not
listen to the doomsayers, or planners of futures. Irresponsible? Perhaps. Perhaps it will come
back to haunt me as my remaining time passes by. Perhaps it won't. In either case, I have not
many regrets to this point and can only look to myself should things turn out to have been the
wrong path. But then, when the decision was made, how would I ever know it was the wrong
path?